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Online dating as a lesbian, for the most part, still involves having your space invaded by straight people. The heteronormative weirdness got so alienating that lesbians began turning to TikTok as a means of meeting other single lesbians — turns out, it's a damn good matchmaker.
But it's unrealistic to expect a social media app to work like a dating app for everyone. It's hard for some of us to comprehend, but not everyone spends every free minute on TikTok. Lesbians who have exhausted their local romantic options are still going to want to see who else is out there. For much of current history, some people have acted as though lesbians didn't exist outside of porn and Ellen DeGeneres, while jokes swirl about how girls only turn to dating women if they had a bad experience with a man.
Even inthese tone-deaf assumptions still find a way rain on the lesbian online dating experience. If it's not a man appearing in your feed when you specifically marked that you're searching for women, it's matching with a woman just to be hit with the classic "My boyfriend and I are looking for a threesome. There's just one problem: The apps targeted toward the straights are still where most of the queer users are, too. Though women-only apps like HER are gaining traction fast, they can still be a bit of a ghost town You just have to decide whether you can deal with the quirks of Tinder and have more options to swipe through, or if you're fine with coming across the same profile three times as long as it's not a man.
A decent of dating sites and apps specifically for lesbians do exist, but most are plagued with the same issues: Their sole purpose is to sexualize lesbians and aren't really for genuine connection at all, or their lax security protocols make it way too easy for ill-intentioned men to up pretending to be women.
Creeps are drawn to porn-y names like Pink Flirt. If you're wondering why we left most of those so-called female only apps out, that's why. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are technically for all orientations, but they'll be damned if they don't sneak some male profiles into your feed even if you've specified the opposite. Given the existence of Grindr and Scruff, the need for an online dating arena specifically for queer women was clear — thus, HER.
As the user base of over four million grows, HER could widen your dating pool beyond the queer women you already know. InHER revamped its profiles to let users get more creative in like gender, sexuality, pronouns, diet preferences like veganismand star s, as well as a "What does this mean? The traditional text bio is where you can flex your sense of humor or describe what kind of relationship you're seeking.
ing niche groups like "newly out" or "travelers" can also connect you with people using the app for similar reasons. Aside from coupling up, a lot of HER regulars are looking to make friends or scope out the queer community in a new town. Switching over to the community feed opens the door to virtual hangouts with self-curated groups for queer women of color or interests like the new lesbian films that mainstream Twitter will probably ignore.
OkCupid's slogan is "Dating deserves better," and they're damn right — especially for queer and non-binary people.
The nearly year-old dating site has shed the heteronormativity skin that still somewhat plagues eharmony and Match. It's hip and well-informed, while maintaining a more serious atmosphere than Tinder. OkCupid consistently le the charge of inclusivity in online dating. In Girls nude seeking butch woman before any other dating site even had the thoughtOkCupid began offering 22 gender and Girls nude seeking butch woman orientation choices.
Fast forward towhen all users can choose their pronouns. The dedication to inclusivity and social justice is also clear with the introduction of Black Lives Matter and voter profile badges. OkCupid's rede goes past enlisting a clearly- millennial graphic deer. For young, left-leaning singles, personal politics aren't just a "well if we agree, it's great" thing when looking for a partner. Users can weed out people they'd hate by answering deal-breakers about things like keeping a gun in the house or requiring children to be vaccinated. OkCupid's connections are strengthened by an algorithm that picks matches based on how similarly both parties answered questions during -up yes, there are questions about communication and sappy relationship things as well as political views.
A compatibility score plus details on where you disagreed are helpful padding when it comes to evaluating what differences are make-or-breaks. Young people looking to at least go on a few dates with the same person instead of beelining for a friends with benefits situation was a blind spot for swiping apps — until Hinge blew up.
The premise and user base might be in the Tinder and Bumble realm, but these three aren't interchangeable. Hinge's unique profile criteria and algorithm based on that criteria set matches up for real-life potential. Despite the fact that we're actively seeking out new dating apps and feel a rush every time a cute contender swipes right back, no one looking for something serious wants to be on these.
That idea fueled Hinge's rebrand to "the dating app deed to be deleted. Instead of cheesy questionnaires and spam s about the 50 winks you've received, Hinge uses ice breakers to find you up to 10 matches per day. Instead of swiping, connections are made by liking or commenting on another person's answers. Prompts range from "Two truths and a lie" to "Does hiking on a Sunday morning seem viable to you too?
Paying for Hinge Preferred also lets you filter by political views. Unlike Tinder and Bumble, which seem to have a broken gaydar, Hinge sees far less reports of men popping up in your feed uninvited. Hinge users also experience more genuine queer people and less unicorn hunting on the app compared to the other big players. Tinder is often bashed for its high level of creepy users and creepy messages — and rightfully so. But given its sheer s of active users including queer onesyou know we couldn't leave it off the list.
Not many people can say Girls nude seeking butch woman they don't know a single person in a relationship where the couple met on Tinder. Countless success stories are told on Reddit when someone asks about where to meet other lesbians. You know the drill: Add pictures, set an age range, and fill out a bio as seriously or not as you want.
While the matching isn't exactly strategic, it's definitely the app that'll help most with scoping out the most lesbians in the doable vicinity. Which is clutch, because one of the main lesbian complaints is that, um, there are none around. Tinder has a tendency to ignore filters here and there, though men obviously can't talk to anyone who doesn't swipe right.
Who can message you, though, are the girls you swipe right for who, surprise, aren't on Tinder to meet women romantically. Some are looking for friends, some are recruiting for a third for a threesome with their boyfriend — either way, you'll have to do some weeding. We love an app that cuts the bullshit. In this case, the bullshit includes cisgender straight men. Lex short for Lexicon, formerly known as Personals is a seriously cool social app for queer, trans, gender non-conforming, two spirit, and non-binary people.
The specific demographic positions Lex to offer a more peaceful experience than "everyone" apps like Tinder and Bumble, but the way it goes about introducing users as lovers or friends is what makes it extra special. A nod to '80s and '90s lesbian erotica magazines, Lex users meet by posting personal about what or who they're looking for, relationship-wise. Thecalled personals, are a chance for users to showcase their wit and be straightforward as hell. Personals can get pretty horny, but it's all about the language — no photos, including selfies, are permitted.
Users can link an Instagram if they want. The traditional swipe-and-match process? Lex doesn't know her. It operates similarly to Craigslist: If you see an ad that appeals to you, answer it. If you're over the tired dynamic of awkwardly testing the waters with a shy hottie you just matched with, you might appreciate how much backstory Lex supplies before a word is exchanged.
If someone's interested in starting a band or planning a protest rather than having sex, they can — and both of those have happened, founder Kell Rakowski told Allure. Lesbians aren't against using a dating app to find a threesome — they'd just prefer that the search doesn't involve pesky straight people. Feeld, the brainchild of a couple that knows non-hetero non-monogamy through personal experience, is a dating app for couples and singles to find threesomes, foursomes, or however many people you want. This isn't the first dating site to focus on non-monogamous sex, but it is the first to do it in a way that doesn't look like a pop-up ad.
Sex positivity is the name of the game here, but not in the hyper-fetishizing way. You can get specific about boundaries, find people with the same kinks, and advertise what who? People on Feeld are generally chill, respectful, and can talk about sex without frothing at the mouth. Because more-than-two sex is the entire point of the app, people are typically honest about intentions right out of the gate.
The app offers more than 20 sexual and gender identities and there's a comforting understanding between users about what those identities mean. The New York Times describes it as "a dating app with options that put the Kinsey scale to shame. NUiT crosses two major complaints off the list: It nixes the need for the notorious "What time were you born?
Remember when Bumble announced it would let users filter matches by their zodiac ? NUiT is the better version of that. The creators at NUiT know that, for many, birth charts can be a wildly helpful tool in maneuvering the dating world by predicting how well you'd mesh with someone in aspects like argument stye or the importance of sex. NUiT also s for the nuances in different combinations of placements outside of sun s.
It encourages daters to use astrological compatibility as insight to understand why a match might act the way they do, but does so while avoiding overly-simplistic "What fried food you are based on your zodiac " energy. People who study astrology will be the first to tell you that astrology is a cosmic guide to behaviors, but it isn't tell-all as to how good of a partner or friend someone will be. Creators also recognized another thing that turns queer users off to heteronormative dating apps: They don't want to see or be seen by straight people.
Sure, Tinder and OkCupid have their share of well-meaning allies — but the lack of shared experience as a queer person can make or break a relationship's dynamic. Such a feature has been a long time coming as dating apps increase focus on inclusivity, and people on Twitter are pretty psyched about it.
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